- Hometown buddies Arye Gross (left) and unrequited crush Tim DeKay.
After winning five separate Audience Awards and other honors at various gay and lesbian film festivals over the past year, Thomas Bezucha's Big Eden has finally opened in general release. You don't have to be an expert on the history of gay cinema to see why -- or even to be gay to enjoy it. This low-key romance about a successful New York painter finding true love on a trip back to his northwestern Montana hometown has all the crowd-pleasing elements moviegoers respond to: appealing hero, absorbing story, a solid group of supporting players, and a big fat happy ending. In its own way quite tough and uncompromising beneath its surface sweetness, Big Eden might be just the ticket for all those younger gay and lesbian moviegoers who like to complain about the way films dealing with AIDS, coming out, and life in the subcultural fast lane don't reflect their own experiences.
When artist Henry Hart (Arye Gross) gets a phone call on the eve of his new gallery opening informing him his grandfather (George Coe) has suffered a stroke, his upset is tempered by a subtle sense of relief. Henry is the sort of mild, unassuming gay guy that women pals are constantly trying to fix up with Mr. Right, to no avail. Clearly, Henry wasn't meant for big-city life. The minute he heads home to help his grandpa, it's apparent why he left in the first place. It's not that the mythical burg of Big Eden, Montana, is a hotbed of homophobia (it's every bit as open and welcoming as Cicely, Alaska, of the late, beloved TV series Northern Exposure). What's got Henry bewitched, bothered, and bewildered is his old friend Dean (Tim DeKay), a divorcé with two sons in his charge, who's the reason Henry left town to begin with. While by no means gay himself, Dean always counted on Henry for the emotional support he couldn't find elsewhere. As Dean could never reciprocate Henry's love physically, there was no place for the relationship to go. But with Henry's return to town, it is clear that Dean wants it to go on anyway -- in the same frustrating fashion.
Meanwhile, frustration of another sort looms with Pike (Eric Schweig), the large, darkly handsome, and cripplingly shy owner of the local store, who's madly in love with Henry and so completely unhinged by the prospect of dealing with his feelings that he's barely able to tolerate being in the same room with him. An opportunity to work things out arises when Pike is assigned by the widow Thayer (Nan Martin), the local grande dame, to deliver home-cooked meals to Henry's grandfather. Since our hero and the widow are both culinarily challenged, Pike begins to whip up all manner of healthy meals in their stead. Being the sort of close-knit community where everyone is aware of everyone else's business, even if they're not particularly nosy or meddling, the town soon catches on to Pike's passion for Henry and delicately conspires to bring the two men together.
This makes for gentle, comic fun, and happily, it doesn't take away from the film's most powerful scenes. In one of them, Dean breaks down in tears over his inability to connect with Henry in a manner that can only be called normal. For any gay man who has ever been strung along by a straight buddy whose emotional demands were greater than their ability to translate themselves into action, this rings frighteningly true. Complementing this scene is a shot toward the end of the film of Pike standing in the background of his shop, aching with love for Henry, who, just at that moment, begins to recognize it. This is just as true, and dramatically astute as well. But the moment isn't writer-director Bezucha's alone. It belongs to his actors -- Schweig and Gross. Especially Gross.
A New Hollywood veteran, Gross has usually played sidekick roles alongside everyone from John Travolta in The Experts (the nadir of the megastar's career before Battleship Earth) to Ellen DeGeneres on These Friends of Mine (the first incarnation of the Ellen show). Gross has always exuded a sense of the everyman and the nice guy. But if nice guys finish last, it can't be said to have been his fault. What's to blame is the inability of writers and directors to see that such qualities have genuine dramatic possibilities. "Nice" should never be confused with dull. And once you realize that, as Bezucha has done here with Gross, you can make "nice" finish in first place.